daughter’s friend jenna had picked her up from the airport as i drove in from fargo. they called me from the grocery store. dinner would be at her friend’s parents’ home. her parents had invited us to stay the two nights we were in town. i had met her mom, marcy, once five years before, when the girls were coworkers in the northwest.
they live close to downtown, in a walkable neighborhood of larger older homes and shops. they own and run a small children’s shoe shop, a few blocks from one of the lakes.
when i arrived cooking was in full swing. their house was full of sentimental photos and eclectic art and pottery. much of their art was in trade with fellow merchants and friends. rich’s dad had painted the thickly brightly layered acrylic impressionist painting of jerusalum which was a gorgeous focal point on the livingroom wall.
standing around the counter between the kitchen and the family room, i shared my experiences of travel so far. and daughter filled me in on the fundraising gala she had helped to support as a board member, the night before. (attended by her younger sister and some friends). marcy talked of preparation for a friend’s sukkot ceremony.
marcy, rich and jenna were bustling about the kitchen, and wouldn’t let us help. we did our part by enjoying the cheeses, and crackers and olives on the counter. marcy was slicing lots of apples. jenna was looking up the recipe for the gallette topping in the big cookbook.
when it was time to eat we sat at the round table in the diningroom. there was a salad of mesclun lettuce with a variety of colors of roasted beets, and goat cheese, with a homemade dressing, warmed bread and butter, roasted cauliflower with curry seasonings, rice and grilled salmon. white wines. all enjoyed leisurely, with conversation that welcomed all of us to tell our current story. for a few of us, the current story isn’t easy. times of transition and anxiety could be openly spoken about. travel and food and grandchildren and graduate school and relationships.
we had talked about going out later but dinner was lingering in a wonderful way. none of us anxious to leave the table. the gallette and ice cream eventually found its way to the table, with decaffinated coffee. still we lingered talking,
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the next day daughter and i walked by the lake and in the neighborhood. later jenna and marcy joined us for our first trip to one of the laura ingalls wilder homesites. i hadn’t known that pepin was so close. both marcy and jenna had work to do but satellite technology enabled them to ride along, doing their work in the car. we compared book club reads. we stopped at a small antique shop, where the owner spent time in his workroom in the back, carving rocking horses. we looked in the little wayside cabin. the (now sparse) big woods. the lake where my literary heroine tore the pocket of her dress when collecting too many pretty pebbles
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when we got back to town, daughter and i were on our own for dinner, with various recommendations from our hosts. marcy suggested eating at the bar of a popular restaurant downtown (at which tables are rarely available without reservation). daughter and i picked a few small plates. cauliflower fritters, homemade noodles and meatballs. rosemary green olives. listening in to the conversations around us. we shared the beautiful barely sweet tres leches cake.
when we got back to the house daughter and jenna went out to a coffeehouse for studying and visiting. i watched “the voice” with marcy and rich. white wine, cookies and chocolate. sitting in the comfortable chair in the family room, marcy working and watching tv on the couch. rich (who rarely seems to sit down) puttering in the kitchen, and returning to the family room whenever it was time to scroll through the commercials.
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in the morning marcy and rich made french toast with the leftover baguettes. fruit and yogurt for the top. and gave us an oral guide of how to get to whole foods, to pick up our road trip groceries. i was so overwhelmed by their kindness and company. being themselves. and giving us welcome room to be ourselves.